Domestic abuse support in Bath: Charity says Christmas brings higher demand
Southside Family Project offers vital help to those impacted by domestic abuse
Christmas can be a challenging time for many, especially for those facing domestic abuse. Southside Family Project, a charity based in Bath and supporting the Bath and North East Somerset area, has seen an increase in demand during the festive season.
Andy Iles, Domestic Abuse Services Manager at Southside Family Project, spoke of the complexities surrounding this time of year.
“Christmas is always quite a busy time for us in the domestic abuse team because obviously, Christmas is a time when families get together," Andy said. He added that the holiday period can see increased tensions in families exacerbated by alcohol consumption and disputes, often resulting in abusive behaviour.
Andy also explained how the festive season can create unique challenges for those seeking help.
“What normally happens is that sometimes our clients find it difficult to get away and make a safe call to us because they’re within that family environment and they can’t get out,” he said, adding that instances of child contact disputes often spike around Christmas as well.
Increased strain during the holiday period
Andy emphasised that Christmas often creates additional challenges in managing cases of domestic abuse. He highlighted that some women remain with their abusive partners during the season to provide their children with the semblance of a positive holiday experience. Financial dependency on the abuser can also play a critical role in preventing individuals from leaving the relationship.
Southside Family Project also witnesses a surge in referrals after Christmas, as many survivors decide the time has come to start afresh in the new year.
Ongoing support from Southside Family Project
Despite the added pressures of the holiday period, Andy stressed that his team works tirelessly to provide support year-round.
The charity offers essential assistance, including emergency funding for those facing financial abuse, food bank vouchers, and donations of toys and food.
“Our office does resemble a bit of a Santa’s grotto at the moment,” Andy mentioned, explaining that contributions from the community play a significant role in delivering much-needed support.
The project adopts a holistic approach, addressing reduced risk while also extending family support or therapy to help rebuild lives after abuse.
Reaching out for help
Andy Iles shared a key message for anyone suffering in silence: “Just make a call to us. That’s all you have to do. You’re not judged. It might not be the right time for you to leave, but you’ll get all the advice that you need, given your situation.”
He also highlighted that domestic abuse encompasses more than physical violence, including coercive control, emotional abuse, and manipulation.
Southside Family Project can also signpost support services to ensure no individual or family is left without resources.
For anyone struggling with domestic abuse in Bath or North East Somerset, Southside Family Project is a lifeline offering unwavering support.