Cheshire Constabulary warns of romance fraud ahead of Valentine’s Day
As Valentine’s Day approaches, Cheshire Constabulary is reminding the public to stay alert to the dangers of romance fraud, a type of scam that exploits emotional trust and can leave victims feeling isolated, distressed, and ashamed.
Last updated 12th Feb 2026
Romance fraud often starts online through dating apps, social media, or gaming platforms.
Scammers typically move relationships along very quickly, build trust and emotional dependence, and then use fabricated crises or manipulation to pressure victims into sending money or sharing personal information.
While financial losses can be significant, the emotional and psychological impact is often far more damaging and long-lasting.
PC Jim Day, Financial Abuse Safeguarding Officer at Cheshire Constabulary, said:
“Romance fraud doesn’t work because people are naïve or careless – it works because it targets very real human needs for connection, reassurance, and belonging. When someone is anxious, lonely, or under emotional pressure, it becomes much harder to think clearly, and that’s exactly what offenders exploit.”
How family and friends can help
Family and friends are often the first to notice changes in a loved one’s behaviour. PC Day advises:
“If you’re worried about someone, the most important thing you can do is listen without judgement. Trying to confront or ‘fix’ the situation too quickly can push people away. Supportive conversations that are calm, empathetic, and non-judgemental are far more effective than advice, pressure, or criticism. Creating a safe space helps someone reflect on their situation and, when ready, consider whether a relationship is genuine.”
Warning signs of romance fraud
Cheshire Constabulary highlights several red flags to watch out for:
- Relationships that feel unusually fast or intense
- Reluctance to meet in person or repeated excuses to avoid video calls
- Requests for money linked to urgent or emotional crises
- Pressure to keep the relationship secret
- Sudden changes in mood, behaviour, or finances
The force also challenges common myths, including the idea that only older people are affected, or that video calls guarantee someone is genuine.
Modern scammers can use AI-generated videos, deepfakes, filters, and pre-recorded footage to appear authentic, making vigilance essential.
What to do if you’re concerned
Anyone feeling uneasy about an online relationship—or worried about a friend or family member—is encouraged to trust their instincts and speak to someone they trust.
Victims or those supporting someone affected can report romance fraud through the UK’s national reporting centre, Report Fraud:
Online: reportfraud.police.uk
By phone: 0300 123 2040
Reports help law enforcement track scams, protect others, and prevent further harm.
In emergencies, always call 999.
Cheshire Constabulary encourages open conversation, vigilance, and support, helping to keep loved ones safe from online exploitation this Valentine’s Day and beyond.