Oxfordshire chocolatier say "love and chocolate go hand in hand" as they've seen proposals on Valentine's Day

They say Valentine's is one of the busiest times of the year

Kate Rumsey
Author: Callum McIntyrePublished 14th Feb 2025

A chocolatier in Oxfordshire says “love and chocolate go hand in hand” as they’ve seen people marking special occasions such as marriage proposals on Valentine’s Day in past years.

That’s despite a national survey shows most of the UK public are choosing not to mark the day in a meaningful way with the majority believing it has become over-commercialised and expensive.

"Really special and can be enjoyed together"

Kate Rumsey, owner of Rumsey’s Chocolaterie in Thame, said: “We’ve had all sorts of lovely romantic things happen over the years, such as proposals over Rumsey’s chocolate and we have put engagement rings inside easter eggs. So, I think love and chocolate go hand in hand.”

Ms Rumsey also says that Valentine’s Day is one of the busiest days on the calendar for her business, she said: “Everyone is in a good mood, we’ve got the love songs playing, the team are wearing red, the customers are really happy. There’s definitely been a few last-minute purchases of chocolate – I don’t want to say it’s just the men – but generally there’s been a rush this morning of last-minute presents.”

The shop is also celebrating its 21st birthday as they first opened on 14th February 2004.

Chocolate has long been a staple of Valentines Day and Ms Rumsey says it’s because “almost everybody loves chocolate, so I think it’s a sure-fire hit and it’s often very shareable which is great if you’re the gift giver. So, it’s something that’s really special and can be enjoyed together.”

The survey in full:

However, a survey finds that many couples are deciding not to mark the occasion, as just 25% of those make an effort to do something special - meaning three quarters choose to give it a miss.

In fact, when asked what they think about Valentine’s Day, 69% believe it to be overrated (43%), cliché (13%), or outdated (13%).

90% of respondents feel there’s too much pressure to adhere to Valentine’s Day traditions, with 90% also believing that it has become too commercialised.

Of those who are single, Valentine's Day was voted to be one of the most difficult times of year to be without a partner (17%), second only to the Christmas period (59%).

(Source: 77 Diamonds)

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