North Yorkshire foster carer urges "empty nesters" to open their homes
Judith Ellis says caring in her 60s has brought unexpected joy
A foster carer from North Yorkshire has spoken about how fostering has given her a new lease of life in her 60s and is urging others to consider helping children and young people in care.
Judith Ellis, 70, became a foster carer in 2018 with her husband, Martin, after their children moved out of the family home. In the past seven years, the couple have fostered 24 children, with placements ranging from a few days to nearly two years.
Mrs Ellis said fostering has been a heartwarming and rewarding experience that has transformed her life.
“We have two children and we only started thinking about fostering when they were grown up and working," said Mrs Ellis. "I had the opportunity to work part-time for the last two years before my pension. Martin and I realised if we didn’t foster now, we never would. That was seven years ago!
“It’s been such a joy and heartwarming - as well as a challenge. Each child brings something different and gives you something new. It certainly keeps us active and interested, like a new lease of life.
“I never imagined that at 70 I’d be jumping in puddles, camping in the back garden or running down the golf course towing a child on a sledge. It’s been so much fun thanks to fostering.”
North Yorkshire Council is encouraging “empty nesters” like the Ellises to consider fostering and help fill the urgent need for carers. As of September 2023, the council had 419 children in foster care and is hosting a series of fostering drop-in sessions throughout November for those who would like to learn more.
The upcoming events are:
Sunday, 26th November, from 10am to 12:30pm at Skipton Library
Monday, 27th November, from 10:30am to 12pm at Norton Hive Library and Community Hub
Wednesday, 29th November, from 10am to 2pm at Selby Abbey, The Crescent, Selby
Cllr Janet Sanderson, the authority's executive member for children and families, highlighted the unique value “empty nesters” bring to fostering.
“Many people in our community have raised families, built homes filled with love, and now find themselves with quieter households and open hearts.
“Fostering offers a chance to rediscover purpose and make a lasting difference in a child’s life. If you’re an empty nester looking for a new chapter, fostering could be the most meaningful way to begin it.”
Mel Hutchinson, North Yorkshire Council’s assistant director for children and families, added: “Empty nesters bring a wealth of life experience, patience, and empathy - all qualities that make exceptional foster carers.
“If your children have flown the nest and your home feels quieter, fostering could be the most fulfilling way to bring joy and meaning back into your everyday life. With Fostering North Yorkshire, you won’t just change a child’s future, you’ll enrich your own.”